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Do you need to tell an ex wife about a new girlfried?
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Site Supporter   Location: Casa Grande AZ Joined: Sat Jan 5, 2013 Posts: 1729 Real Name: 425-622-1646 
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Ok..so an ex wife..its been 7 years..called me and said she is coming down to PHX and can she stay in my guest room. I said sure the dog would go nuts..We had a amicable divorce..we talk sometimes on the phone..good movies..weather ect. She does not know I have been seeing this little 20 something for a year and a half..I am 55..Now the little GF is pissed saying I am hiding her..No..I have introduced her to everyone..but the ex wife..so now she is all not talking to me and crap.Why is it any of the ex wifes business ?? Why is it any of the new GF business? she is only here for 3 days in the guest room..and why are chicks so stupid? Help me out here dudes
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| Mon Oct 25, 2021 3:45 pm |
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Site Admin   Location: Renton, WA Joined: Sun Mar 13, 2011 Posts: 52021 Real Name: Steve
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When you figure it out, let me know.
But . . . yeah, any gf will be wary of the ex-wife. I'd keep the gf in the loop on this one, given that the ex is staying with you. _________________ Steve Benefactor Life Member, National Rifle Association Life Member, Second Amendment Foundation Patriot & Life Member, Gun Owners of America Life Member, Citizens Committee for the Right to Keep and Bear Arms Legal Action Supporter, Firearms Policy Coalition Member, NAGR/NFGR Please support the organizations that support all of us. Leave it cleaner than you found it. |
| Mon Oct 25, 2021 3:57 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: Spanaway WA Joined: Wed Jul 6, 2011 Posts: 6312 Real Name: Hugo Stiglitz
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So let me get this straight, you invited your ex-wife to stay in your your guest room while she is in town and then tell your GF after you made the “Arrangement”?
I get where you were going with this as I would love to have a “fun night” with my ex and a 20 something year old GF but your execution of this was well lets just say sleep with one open for the next week… Here lies Munchie, he died from scrunchie ,now he gets no touchy….. |
| Mon Oct 25, 2021 4:06 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: Pierce County Joined: Sun Oct 14, 2018 Posts: 1126
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[quote="munchie"…..I have been seeing this little 20 something for a year and a half..I am 55. Help me out here dudes[/quote]
So a) you’re rich, and b) two women are going to team up to kill you. Can I inherit your guns? |
| Mon Oct 25, 2021 4:29 pm |
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In Memoriam  Location: Tacoma Wa Joined: Tue Oct 8, 2013 Posts: 16607 Real Name: George Bailey
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Yeah...
Ex wife in the house... No Bueno....ever. Flip it...what youd feel like if 20 somethings Ex stayed at her place for 3 days... _________________ "Remove one freedom per generation and soon you will have no freedom and no one would have noticed."......Carl Marx "Let us Cross the river and sit in the shade of the trees" .....Stonewall Jackson T. Jefferson "....the tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots & tyrants. it is it's natural manure" |
| Mon Oct 25, 2021 4:33 pm |
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In Memoriam  Location: Mukilteoish Joined: Sat Mar 26, 2011 Posts: 11595
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The 20 something can stay at my house. Problem solved.
I'm only 7.4 miles away. My current GF is reaching the expiration date anyhow. _________________ NRA Endowment Member. How did they know my member was well endowed? |
| Mon Oct 25, 2021 4:46 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: The banana belt of MT Joined: Wed Dec 30, 2015 Posts: 8584 Real Name: Brian
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Guntrader wrote: The 20 something can stay at my house. Problem solved. I'm only 7.4 miles away. My current GF is reaching the expiration date anyhow.  _________________ "I hate to advocate drugs, alcohol, violence, or insanity to anyone, but they've always worked for me."- Hunter S. Thompson |
| Mon Oct 25, 2021 5:34 pm |
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Site Supporter Location: The banana belt of MT Joined: Wed Dec 30, 2015 Posts: 8584 Real Name: Brian
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Invite both to "Keilbasa" night. Get those 12" ers...lube....zip ties...beer and wine. Hooorah!
_________________ "I hate to advocate drugs, alcohol, violence, or insanity to anyone, but they've always worked for me."- Hunter S. Thompson |
| Mon Oct 25, 2021 5:37 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: Maple Valley, WA Joined: Thu Mar 17, 2011 Posts: 9266 Real Name: Young
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Dude. You have a unique problem that most only dream of…
But the right answer is always be honest. No hiding. If you had an amicable divorce and you are and she is willing to stay at your place. You bet you need to let the GF know. Otherwise as you have found out… you will lose at both ends. |
| Mon Oct 25, 2021 5:55 pm |
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 Location: Puyallup Joined: Thu Aug 16, 2012 Posts: 9065 Real Name: Richard Fitzwelliner
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This is some silly teenager drama. You are hiding your girlfriend, pain and simple. She's pissed and rightfully so. I told the ex wife I had a girlfriend as soon as it happened, he'll the divorce wasn't even finalized. It's called being respectful. She's been your ex for 7 damn years and lives nowhere near you, she's not going to cry over it. She might be thinking she's gonna get some action. Have fun with 2 when being pissed at you. You also really fucked up not running it by your girlfriend first. That's terribly disrespectful
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| Mon Oct 25, 2021 6:13 pm |
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In Memoriam Location: Tacoma Wa Joined: Tue Oct 8, 2013 Posts: 16607 Real Name: George Bailey
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Mediumrarechicken wrote: This is some silly teenager drama. You are hiding your girlfriend, pain and simple. She's pissed and rightfully so. I told the ex wife I had a girlfriend as soon as it happened, he'll the divorce wasn't even finalized. It's called being respectful. She's been your ex for 7 damn years and lives nowhere near you, she's not going to cry over it. She might be thinking she's gonna get some action. Have fun with 2 when being pissed at you. You also really fucked up not running it by your girlfriend first. That's terribly disrespectful yup... you may loose the twenty something over this. _________________ "Remove one freedom per generation and soon you will have no freedom and no one would have noticed."......Carl Marx "Let us Cross the river and sit in the shade of the trees" .....Stonewall Jackson T. Jefferson "....the tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots & tyrants. it is it's natural manure" |
| Mon Oct 25, 2021 6:15 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: AZ Joined: Fri Aug 17, 2018 Posts: 6793
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How about this: after your ex- ruined her own life, she wants to make sure that your life is ruined as well?
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| Mon Oct 25, 2021 6:26 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: South Seattle Joined: Thu Sep 22, 2011 Posts: 13486 Real Name: JP
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If you wanna keep the GF, ex-wife stays elsewhere.
Amicable or not, she's an ex for a reason. _________________ Yes I Do Have A Beautiful Daughter.. I Also Have A Gun, A Shovel, & An Alibi |
| Mon Oct 25, 2021 6:38 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: East of Japan, not by much. Joined: Fri Jun 3, 2011 Posts: 12990
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Offer to do a threesome with the two of them after they do some house cleaning and make you a sammich. If that don't work, chuck 'em both, and round up a new stray for the household. I don't know what this is so complicated for you.
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| Mon Oct 25, 2021 6:50 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: South Seattle Joined: Thu May 2, 2013 Posts: 12474 Real Name: Steve
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Pretty simple, really.
You’re still in an emotional relationship with your ex, and now it’s going to be physical, at least superficially. Does the GF know you still talk to the ex a lot? If not, then that’s a problem; if so, then the ex coming out is a problem. Why is the ex coming to town? To see you, or...? Like someone mentioned, it sounds like teenage games... Pick the one that’s most important to you, and be respectful enough of the other one to let them know. Edit: Wait, you talk to your ex a lot, but haven’t told her in the last year and a half that you were seeing someone? Someone’s playing games... Last edited by NWGunner on Mon Oct 25, 2021 7:08 pm, edited 1 time in total. |
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