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Dating (and/or "Knocking Boots") While Carrying A Gun
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Site Supporter   Location: White Center Joined: Thu Mar 17, 2011 Posts: 6489 
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So the thread with suggestions for ways women could carry got me thinking...
 How (and when) do you tell a women (or a man) that you're dating (or heading to the bedroom with) that you are carrying a gun? It seems that if someone puts their arms around your waist they are going to find it...if they pull your belt or shirt off - that's definitely going to happen. How do you handle this situation? When do you mention it? What do you do with the gun when things kick off in the bedroom? Women who carry - did you carry when you were single/mingling? How did your date react when they found out? I've had to deal with this in the past - but I'm curious to hear different perspectives.  |
| Mon Mar 23, 2015 1:17 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: Graham Joined: Sun Sep 4, 2011 Posts: 2222
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Quit hanging out on Capitol Hill and you won't have that problem.
 Seriously though...if your dating...you should probably have the 2A discussion before you get to that point. You never know...he might be packing too. (Or she in my case) at which point there really isn't that much of a problem. Or...they might be an Anti-gunner...in which case you're litterally sleeping with the enemy. _________________ What is a Waterbouget? It is that yellow thing in the middle, below my user name. |
| Mon Mar 23, 2015 1:24 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: WA/MT Joined: Thu Sep 6, 2012 Posts: 8285
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If she is undressing me, she has already known for quite some time that I carry. It's a first date convo for me.
If they aren't comfortable with the idea, then they arent for me, and there is no point of going further. I'm not slutty. _________________ Rara Temporum Felicitas Ubi Sentire Quae Velis Et Quod Velis Dicere Licet. ― Tacitus "Well, nobody's perfect." ― Osgood Fielding III |
| Mon Mar 23, 2015 1:26 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: Midwest Joined: Thu Oct 2, 2014 Posts: 8645
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Benja455 wrote: Women who carry - did you carry when you were single/mingling? How did your date react when they found out? I suspect their encounter went something like this:  _________________ Massivedesign wrote: I am thinking of a number somewhere between none of and your business. |
| Mon Mar 23, 2015 1:30 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: N-Sno Joined: Thu Oct 3, 2013 Posts: 4015
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 _________________ "Hmmm. I've been looking for a way to serve the community that incorporates my violence." -- Leela |
| Mon Mar 23, 2015 1:34 pm |
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Site Supporter Location: Midwest Joined: Thu Oct 2, 2014 Posts: 8645
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mislabeled, I stole that one for the meme thread. Excellent!
_________________ Massivedesign wrote: I am thinking of a number somewhere between none of and your business. |
| Mon Mar 23, 2015 1:43 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: Bainbridge Island Joined: Wed Jan 16, 2013 Posts: 1684 Real Name: Matt
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I actually had this happen just the other night lol! She put her arms around my waist and was like wth is that? I converted one boys!!
_________________ "Using my gun to see at night, and sleeping with my flashlight" - atmosphere |
| Mon Mar 23, 2015 1:56 pm |
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Site Supporter Location: N-Sno Joined: Thu Oct 3, 2013 Posts: 4015
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FattyKrack wrote: I actually had this happen just the other night lol! She put her arms around my waist and was like wth is that? I converted one boys!! So did she switch to chicks or is she now into guns? Because...phrasing.  _________________ "Hmmm. I've been looking for a way to serve the community that incorporates my violence." -- Leela |
| Mon Mar 23, 2015 2:10 pm |
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Site Supporter Location: Bainbridge Island Joined: Wed Jan 16, 2013 Posts: 1684 Real Name: Matt
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mislabeled wrote: FattyKrack wrote: I actually had this happen just the other night lol! She put her arms around my waist and was like wth is that? I converted one boys!! So did she switch to chicks or is she now into guns? Because...phrasing. [emoji23] roflmao. I open carry a subcompact to under compensate :) Converted a lady on the fence about carry to fully on our side. :) _________________ "Using my gun to see at night, and sleeping with my flashlight" - atmosphere |
| Mon Mar 23, 2015 2:18 pm |
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Site Supporter Location: Graham Joined: Sun Sep 4, 2011 Posts: 2222
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FattyKrack wrote: I actually had this happen just the other night lol! She put her arms around my waist and was like wth is that? I converted one boys!! So you're saying that you freaked her out so much that she figured her best bet to keep you away from her was to arm herself? I guess that's one way to do it! _________________ What is a Waterbouget? It is that yellow thing in the middle, below my user name. |
| Mon Mar 23, 2015 2:21 pm |
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Site Supporter Location: Graham Joined: Sun Sep 4, 2011 Posts: 2222
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mislabeled wrote: That is SO going on the first date questions list! Hopefully, I will get that response at some point! _________________ What is a Waterbouget? It is that yellow thing in the middle, below my user name. |
| Mon Mar 23, 2015 2:23 pm |
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 Site Moderator   Location: Marysville Joined: Thu Mar 22, 2012 Posts: 13507 Real Name: Mike
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mislabeled wrote: FattyKrack wrote: I actually had this happen just the other night lol! She put her arms around my waist and was like wth is that? I converted one boys!! So did she switch to chicks or is she now into guns? Because...phrasing. Funniest thing I've read in a long time is...funny. _________________ Licensed/Bonded/Insured Hardwood Floor Installer/Finisher http://www.hardwoodfloorsnw.com/ |
| Mon Mar 23, 2015 2:35 pm |
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Site Supporter  Location: south 'merca Joined: Wed Jul 25, 2012 Posts: 9738 Real Name: Mike
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Old lady new I was a gun guy before we even dated.
_________________ "No Quarter, No Mercy" mash_man wrote: #gangbangerlivesmatter |
| Mon Mar 23, 2015 2:45 pm |
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Site Supporter Location: Midwest Joined: Thu Oct 2, 2014 Posts: 8645
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My wife and I went shooting on our second date. 10 years before I started carrying.
Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk _________________ Massivedesign wrote: I am thinking of a number somewhere between none of and your business. |
| Mon Mar 23, 2015 3:30 pm |
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 Location: Edmonds, WA Joined: Sun Mar 15, 2015 Posts: 422
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Benja455 wrote: So the thread with suggestions for ways women could carry got me thinking... How (and when) do you tell a women (or a man) that you're dating (or heading to the bedroom with) that you are carrying a gun? It seems that if someone puts their arms around your waist they are going to find it...if they pull your belt or shirt off - that's definitely going to happen. How do you handle this situation? When do you mention it? What do you do with the gun when things kick off in the bedroom? Women who carry - did you carry when you were single/mingling? How did your date react when they found out? I've had to deal with this in the past - but I'm curious to hear different perspectives. I was not carrying when my husband and I were dating. If I were to ever need to re-enter the dating world, the gun topic would come up very early on. If he didn't carry that would be fine with me, as long as he wasn't anti-2nd, that would be pretty hard to deal with. I can't imagine finding a guy like that, um... [i]masculine[i] enough, to be quite honest. joao01's meme says it all. ETA: apparently I can't pull off italics yet... |
| Mon Mar 23, 2015 4:33 pm |
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